We come from a failed culture, you know.

Our men force themselves on women, and our women beg to be accepted. Even if men don’t direct force themselves, they will come to your life and gently force you see them, read them, listen to them, and so forth. But they know you have to listen to them. Unless you come from a good family. It doesn’t happen quite often.

But there are some men who don’t force (which are very few), and there are women who don’t beg. Quite the contrary, they humiliate men.

Eventually, men don’t enjoy their relationships because women tolerate them. They don’t love them. They were forced to that, by any means. Women don’t enjoy because they were forced to be a companion to that man. Iranian men are not desirable in general. In foreign countries it becomes clearer why both men and women of Iran are challenging. It barely happens that 2 good natured well fit Iranian find each other. It barely happens. But it happens. I have only seen one.

That’s why Iranians are lonely. They don’t come from a healthy culture. And back home, their country is only falling apart more and more.

It is hard to interact with broken people every day. When you are poor, or have no power, these same small people will abuse you. But once you grow, you don’t need to be close to these losers or any loser from any country. That’s why they beg more and more. They are not just Iranians. Small people are everywhere.

Iran is a country that might disappear in 40 years. Our people have no self-esteem. It’s not just the international prestige Iran holds as a country. Our people do not see any consequences for their actions. One of the outcomes, is that low self-esteem that makes them do and say almost anything that comes out of their mouth.

Bullies never prosper. That’s a fact. They fail gradually, but some day some bravy stands up to them. Then they diminish, forever.

I guess the main reason people treat the one who respect them, is about their parents, mostly.

They don’t like themselves. They were born and raised with disrespect. Usually their mom hated their dad. They treat others terribly because deep down they are insecure. They are sure no one likes them, and that they are not worthy. So if someone likes them or respects them, it’s definitely a negative sign, meaning that the lover is probably worthless person. Because no worthy one will ever like them.

There is another reason, however. These people are usually sociopath and sadistic. When they find someone who cares about them, they find a chance to take of advantage of that person and hurt them. They enjoy it. It’s their personality trait.

That’s why there is no winning with these people. That’s why you should avoid these people. Once you move on and finally find normal and sane people, you figure what monsters those people who surrounded you were. There is a reason they struggle. Not every struggler deserves that, but these people definitely do.

The country I came from, had many of these people. You could see a 35 year old guy and think he is mature, but no. ،They were immature, remained immature, and will die immature. People never change.