It makes me laugh when 40+ single Iranians or any nationality, say they are “boys and girls”. sweetie you are not a boy anymore. You are in reach for your twilight. The fact that you never felt you should get your life together before 40, and thought that “I am young, mommy and daddy support me emotionally and if I need money I can butcher innocent simple people who trust me, and I can continue the crappy life with no responsibilities I have” is YOUR FAULT. Not anyone else’s. Do not blame the third world country you are living in. It was your choice. I have seen many of you in real life. Until 50, these type of personalities chase after others, hurt people, stalk, abuse, and take no responsibilities. After 50, they come to their senses that they are lonely. Life is not a do-over. If you lived like a moron the first half of your life, it was your fault. Or it was your genes, or the way your mommy and daddy brought you up. It is time to take responsibility and fix the rest of your life. People understand when you blame everyone including the girls you abused. Some of them were your daughter’s age. Your life is a lesson to others.